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It’s Thanksgiving, Charlie Brown.

I am thankful for a great many things, particularly sitting around and watching both Peanuts Thanksgiving specials on the tee vee. I have a deep, soft place in my heart for the scenes where the Peanuts gang try to make their own rag tag holiday celebration. I also have a soft spot for caricatures of Pilgrims.

(Noble in intention/short in execution, the recent popularity of “secret restaurants” in Providence will forever remind me of living in the above scene where Peppermint Patty is delivered a platter full of pretzel sticks, pop corn, jelly beans and buttered toast. These days, I just politely decline.)

I’m also Thankful for all of the friends that I have been able to spend time with this past week: eleven in six days! Eleven folks that like and care about so much but only am able to see a couple times a year at most- once every 5 years at least! I’ve tried to withhold my sappy emotions but, it is difficult. I spend so many hours of my evenings and weekends alone in my studio that I have developed something of a fleeting loneliness complex. Thus, I tend to take it to heart when my presence seems to improve the quality of someone’s life, even if only for a few hours. Some real heart-to-heart shit.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, it’s time for the Lady Gaga Thanksgiving special.

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Friendship Necklace Contest!

Do you like friends?

I sure do! And so does Anja! And that’s why we are bringing you a chance to win the set of With Care friendship necklaces of your choice!

Arrows or bottles! Ships or whales!

All you have to do to enter is make your way over to Anja’s blog, Clevernettle.com, and leave a comment posting your favorite vintage “friendship” picture. We’ll leave it up to you as to how friendship should be interpreted.

The contest is open until this weekend and we’ll announce the winner shortly there after.

Step on up! Give it a chance! Test your luck! Don’t make me beg!

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Springtime for Friendship.

Corny, I know. However, for the first time in my memory, our old groundhog friend, Puxatony Phily has divined for us Americanos an early springtime. Woo hoo. Oh yeah. Thank goodness. Etcetera.

While the snow has been steadily retreating from my garden and compost pile (today, in fact, is the first day that there has been no snow in my garden plot since the day after Christmas) I have found that early spring is most present in my friendships- blossoming from inside their cold, winter dens. Hibernation seems like a trend that many New Englanders can get behind. Add to that no car and a poor public transportation system and the desire to curl up for a long winter’s nap is an obvious choice.

However, as soon as the days stretch themselves out a little further, communing with others seems like more and more of an attractive past time. It is wild to see how many people are walking the main streets on a 35 degree day versus a 50 degree day. A big difference, for sure. (Yet, female college students: please postpone tank tops and coochie cutters for at least another 3 months. Please….please.)

I’ve seen so many of my friends this past week. It has been so wonderful! Making things and eating things and going places and, naturally, gossiping. I can give myself over to work too easily so it is always good to know that I still am able to hang out, relax, and just pal around with folks of mutual admiration.

I know that I have posted all of these items on here before. In defense of this consumerist clip show, I am fond of my friends but I am also fond of friendship jewelry. Jewelry is ornament but, thank goodness, jewelry is also an awesome form of communication- a secret code of tie bars, National Honor Society rings, and 1″ band buttons. Traditional friendship necklaces have long featured a fractured heart but all of my relationships are greater than that singular whole. A friendship is not a closed system. Another person cannot complete you. Do not let top 40 radio tell you otherwise. Again with the pleading. Please…please.

I love these pairings because they compliment each other, as all good partnerships should. There is room for growth, change, and separation. Each piece stands well enough on its own but when they come together, ah!, they sure do look like something special.

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